I remember how refreshing it would be to meet a guy in high school or even college who actually loved God as much as I did. Unfortunately, it can be pretty rare! I do think it’s possible that God had you meet “on purpose” (as you put it), but that doesn’t necessarily mean that He meant for you to be in a relationship with this guy. Just because you share a common faith doesn’t automatically mean you’re destined to be soul mates. Whether you should develop a deeper relationship with him depends on other qualities too (like integrity, intelligence and honor, to name a few). Keep your eyes open for any red flags in his character or in the way he treats you as you get to know him. Keep in mind that at the end of the day, it may take ol’ fashioned time to tell those things. So keep protecting your heart as you get to know this guy better.

 I know it’s tempting to relish each butterfly fluttering around inside you, but don’t let those emotions be your guide. Let God play the role of director. (Which it sounds like you’re doing. Keep it up!) He knows you, and the guy you’re crushin’ on, much better than you do. He knows what’s best for you, and will act in your best interest if you’ll trust Him.

On a practical side, I’m assuming you don’t live in the same town as this guy, which means you’re getting to know each other through email or over the phone. It’s important to be even more cautious while you’re getting to know someone long-distance. He may be a great guy, but it’s also easy to fake being godly, mature and sincere over email or over a twenty-minute phone conversation. So keep your eyes wide open, sis.

Love,