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Guys never seem to notice me, and I keep thinking that there is something wrong with me. All my friends keep talking about who likes them and blah-blah-blah. People say that I’m really pretty. Well, I would believe them if guys noticed me! People keep saying, “Your time will come,” or “I don’t know why guys don’t like you.” And they say nothing is wrong with me. Well then why haven’t I ever been asked out in my entire life? I mean, it’s not like I want guys following me around or anything, but I wonder why I always seem to be overlooked. I really want to get over this and enjoy my life, because I become depressed about this. I don’t feel worthy or even pretty anymore.
I think I better start by addressing a very common misconception—a lie that Satan would really, really like you to believe. (I’ll explain...
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My boyfriend of six months broke up with me about two months ago, and I just can't seem to get my life back together! I have to come to school every day and act like everything's fine, when really I just want to give up on life. I've been trying to pray about it and cling to God, but I still feel really empty, worthless, and pretty depressed. And he seems just fine, which hurts worse! What should I do?
Sis, you are so beautiful! God knows you with an intimacy no boy could ever understand. You are precious to your heavenly Father, and He delights in...
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My best friend is gorgeous and extremely skinny, and I always find myself being jealous of her. Her boyfriend tells her all the time how “hot” she is, and his friends tell him how beautiful they think she is. They are the nicest guys and never say anything bad about me, but I just can’t stop myself from wishing I looked like her or something similar. Before I go to bed at night I read my Bible and ask God to give me comfort and self-assurance, and I feel 100% better...until I see her at school the next day, and then it all comes back again. How do I get over this jealousy?
First of all, thanks for your honesty, sis! You make total sense! And you are far from alone in the feelings you expressed. So many of us girls...
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I have a great Christian boyfriend now and things are great. I just don't know if I'm really over my last boyfriend, and I really do want to be over him considering how he broke my heart. I really like my new boyfriend and I don't want to be thinking about an ex when I'm with him. How do I just move on?
Being over someone is tricky business. It takes time to get past it all, and usually one of the last things that stands in the way is the question,...
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My mom and dad just split up about a week and a half before their 12th anniversary, and my house is crazy! What should I do? My mom cries a lot now, but I’m young, so I have no experience with what she’s going through. Have any ideas?
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My boyfriend of 2 ½ years broke up with me last week. He told me that after fasting and praying, he heard the voice of God telling him to dethrone anything that was currently capturing his heart. That thing was me. I understand that this is what we both need to really clear our minds and put God in his rightful place, but my heart is killing me. Any advice?
I totally get where you're at... been on both sides of the "have to put God first" breakup, and neither end of it feels very good. On one hand, I...
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A year ago I met a guy. He's insanely sweet, humble, very caring, and always full of joy. He's the type of guy that people love being around. Later on I found out why: he's a Christian. A true follower. I was never really introduced to God as a child, but because of this guy, I started to become more interested. I read the Bible almost every day for four months and I started to follow Christ on my own. It's been a year now, and I am completely infatuated with this guy, because of who he is and what he's done for me. I really like him, but I don't think he feels the same way about me. I hate that I get jealous when he talks to other girls. Should I just let him go and stop talking to him completely? Because I feel like it's destroying me. I try reading Scripture to help stop these feelings, but when I see him they always come back.
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Reading through your question I'm reminded how God gets a hold of His own in so many different ways! No matter if you...
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I have a great boyfriend who respects me and loves me. I told him I'm not ready for sex because I'd like to stay a virgin until I'm married. He said he is perfectly fine with that. He also said that if he ever does anything that makes me feel uncomfortable, I need to tell him. The thing is, he sometimes says things that I'm unsure about. He makes little comments about my body or about sex that I don't really know what to do with. I'd like to include that he has severe A.D.H.D. and so he speaks what's on his mind and doesn't really have a filter.
I'm so proud of you for communicating your boundaries to your boyfriend! You're a wise girl to save the precious gift of sex for your husband. It's...
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I have a boyfriend who is two years older than me and a very new Christian. My mom has set strict guidelines for our relationship, but, unfortunately, we've already broken the rules. My boyfriend and I have talked and we are both committed to not having premarital sex, but we've gone as far as making out and I'm afraid this will lead to more, as well as the fact that my mom does't even want us kissing. I want to obey her. How do I tell my boyfriend this, and what if he doesn't get it? And how do I assure we are slowing down?
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First of all, I've got to give you big props for "wanting to obey" your mom's guidelines for your relationship with...
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My boyfriend is just my type. Plus, my parents really like him and his parents really like me. But I think he wants to have sex. He said that if he ever did anything I didn't like that I have the right to stop him, and he asked me what my limits were. But he sometimes says things that make me feel a little bit uncomfortable. What should I do?
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First, I have to give you some props, sis. You're a wise girl for caring what your parents think about your boyfriend...
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