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I feel as if the harder I try to be better and live my life for God, the more things fall apart. I can’t really sleep, and when I do I have stressful dreams and I wake up with a sore jaw from grinding my teeth. I don’t know what to do. I'm praying more than ever, but I still feel alone.
"I feel as if the
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How can I know God's plan for my life? I've always felt that God was leading me to go to medical school, but recently I've started seriously thinking about working with Doctors Without Borders. For some reason, it kind of feels like the thing I'm supposed to do. Could this be God speaking to me?
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I’ve gone to church my whole life. When I was around nine or ten, one night I prayed and asked Jesus to save me. The thing is, I was really shy (and still am), and so I didn't tell anyone. Since I hadn’t told anyone about my relationship with Christ, I wondered if it was real, so a week later I asked Him to come into my life again. That happened a couple more times, but I still never told anyone. Eventually, when I was twelve, my pastor asked me to meet with him, and I prayed with him. Now, I keep wondering when I was really saved. It was a process for me, not a particular moment, and I sort of feel like I need to know a real date. What do you think?
Thank you so much for
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My boyfriend is a senior and he's not a Christian. I'm a freshman and I am a Christian. I know that sounds like the perfect recipe for disaster, but I know that he respects me and my boundaries and he is completely open to Christianity. My parents like him a lot and trust that he won't do anything to put me in any harm. We take him to church with us on most weekends. My boyfriend, although he is not a Christian, is "spiritual but not religious," meaning he believes in all the principles of being a Christian, but is not necessarily tied to one religion. I consider him more respectful and honest than most of the Christian guys that I grew up with. He doesn't take advantage of me, and if he wants to do something with me that he deems questionable, he always asks me first. Bottom line, if I am in a relationship with a guy who is not a Christian, but he is being drawn closer to God through me, is there anything wrong with that?
While a three or four year age difference in high school is a bigger
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I came to your “Busting the Boyfriend-less Blues” seminar at Hume Lake, but I didn’t have a pen. Could you put the verses you used on the website, especially that one you paraphrased at the end? Thanks!
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I’m having some trouble understanding what it says in Matthew 12:31-37, when Jesus talks about the “unforgivable sin.” I have a hard time understanding why God would choose to claim something as unforgivable. And I want to make sure that I haven’t committed it. I don’t understand this passage and it has worried me for years. I randomly get worried that I might have said something that is unforgivable. I have read a commentary passage on the passage, and listened to speakers who basically say that if you worry about committing an unforgiveable sin, it means that you’re forgivable because God has placed in you a desire to repent. I don’t get why worrying would mean you haven’t done this. I just need to know what this means. Thanks.
You have an excellent question, sis, and I’ll do my best to answer it for you. With a phrase like “unforgivable sin,” I can see why...
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My friend isn’t really an atheist; she believes in a god, but just not our God. I want to bring her to God, but how? What should I say? I have tried before, but she won’t listen. Please help!
First, I love that you care about your friend enough to want to do whatever you can to show her how good it is to live life in love with the One True...
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My dad is Jewish and mom is Catholic. None of us go to church (or temple).My dad is against me being a Christian and going to church. I haven’t even told him that my life is dedicated to God. I have to hide my Bible and all my crosses from him. It makes me so angry knowing he won’t accept me for who I am. And on top of that, my few close friends here are not Christian. Mostly atheists. I just feel alone. Like in the book of Daniel—he was so true to God and had so much strength. But it's just so hard when no one around is encouraging or accepting my life for Jesus. Any suggestions to help me deal with this?
I've been thinking about you and your question all week, asking God to open my eyes to whatever He would have me share with you. I kept expecting...
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I was up at Hume last week and went to your “4 Big, Obnoxious Lies” seminar. I really loved your PowerPoint, but I didn’t get a chance to write down some of the verses. Could you post the verses online?
No problem. In fact, I'm just stoked that you would go through the trouble of emailing to get them. It shows you care what God thinks and that makes...
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I recently heard a sermon about fake Christianity. The speaker said that a person can fool anyone—even themselves—into thinking they’re a Christian. Having been a Christian all my life, I don’t remember ever having that big life-changing moment. I remember the day I became a Christian, but I was four, so my life didn’t change a lot. How can I tell if I really am a Christian or if I’ve just fooled myself and everyone else into thinking I am?
Let’s say I came up to you in a couple of years and asked you to prove that you actually graduated high school. How would you prove it? Well,...
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When I was young (only five or six), I did something horrible. My parents had sent me to my room for something, and I don’t know why I was so angry, but I told God that He wasn't God, Satan was. Very soon after that I was really sorry and I begged God to forgive me and erase what I had said. I didn't mean what I said; I was just having a childish tantrum. But even now, I worry that I may not be forgiven, that I committed the unforgivable sin. It worries me so much I want to cry. I really hope God has forgiven me. I'm so scared that I might spend eternity in hell for what I did. Am I forgiven, or eternally damned?
With a phrase like "the unforgivable sin," I can see why you'd be worried, but hopefully I can put your mind at ease for good.
This "unforgivable...
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I have a friend who is gay. I’ve told him I don’t support his lifestyle, but he tends to ask why. He’s not a Christian, though, so telling him, “‘Cause the bible says so,” doesn’t go over well. I believe when God tells us not to do something, He always has a good reason. Like how the Jews couldn’t eat certain meats because if they cooked them wrong they could get some nasty diseases. So what was God’s reason when He said homosexuality is wrong? Why is being gay bad for someone?
You’re right: God “always has a reason” for the rules He gives us. But sometimes He doesn’t tell us what they are. For...
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I have a really strong desire to be an actress and live in Hollywood. I want it so bad that it hurts to know how small the chances are, and that it may not be what God wants for me. I know it's not right, but I've been avoiding what God wants me to do because I am scared it may not be acting in movies. What should I do?
Hey sis,
I can definitely understand the draw to want to be a part of the Hollywood lifestyle. It seems fun and glamorous and exciting, especially...
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Lately I haven't been doing my devotions or spending time with God like I should be, and I can see it showing in my life. I know it's different for everyone, but what do you do or recommend doing for devotions?
First, I'm glad you recognize that your time with God is lacking and actually want to do something about it. It's one of the big struggles every...
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I have really big fear of my mom dying. She is in good health and everything, I'm just afraid that one day I'll wake up and she won't be there anymore. Sometimes I can't sleep for hours because I'm so worried; I want to be awake in case something does happen. I know it's all in God's hands, but I still worry. How do I stop worrying so much?
Recently my mom was diagnosed with very serious pancreatic cancer. We had no idea anything was wrong before that. I don't share that to scare you,...
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I've never felt so worthless in my life. God has gifted me in many areas, and people acknowledge my gifts, but at the same time they create expectations for me that I feel I can't reach. When I fail to reach those expectations I feel worthless. I know I can find my value and worth in God, but sometimes I don't feel that I'm truly valuable to anyone else. How do I learn to meet expectations and feel valuable?
Others' expectations can be difficult to live with, especially when they come from people we care about, like parents, siblings or even teachers....
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What should you do when you do something you know is wrong, and you want to resolve it with God, but for some reason you don't even feel guilty about it? Because I know what I did was wrong, but I don't feel bad about it.
You ask an excellent question, and I can totally relate to your confusion. I've been there, too. I think one of Satan's biggest tricks is something...
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When I went to camp at Hume Lake, it was great and life- changing. I rededicated myself to God, but when I got home, I went back to the same old ways. I really want to be in God's image. Like when people look at me, I want them to see God. What can I do to change?
First, I'm really proud of you for wanting to follow God with your whole heart. I truly believe that God will honor your desire to be a light to...
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I like a guy, but he's Methodist and I'm Baptist. We haven't really talked about religion much, except that we are both Christians. Do denomations make a difference? And what are the real differences between Methodists and Baptists?
You're not the only person confused by all the different denominations that make up the Christian faith. I'm no church historian, and even I get...
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