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My boyfriend of six months broke up with me about two months ago, and I just can't seem to get my life back together! I have to come to school every day and act like everything's fine, when really I just want to give up on life. I've been trying to pray about it and cling to God, but I still feel really empty, worthless, and pretty depressed. And he seems just fine, which hurts worse! What should I do?
Sis, you are so beautiful! God knows you with an intimacy no boy could ever understand. You are precious to your heavenly Father, and He delights in...
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Guys never seem to notice me, and I keep thinking that there is something wrong with me. All my friends keep talking about who likes them and blah-blah-blah. People say that I’m really pretty. Well, I would believe them if guys noticed me! People keep saying, “Your time will come,” or “I don’t know why guys don’t like you.” And they say nothing is wrong with me. Well then why haven’t I ever been asked out in my entire life? I mean, it’s not like I want guys following me around or anything, but I wonder why I always seem to be overlooked. I really want to get over this and enjoy my life, because I become depressed about this. I don’t feel worthy or even pretty anymore.
I think I better start by addressing a very common misconception—a lie that Satan would really, really like you to believe. (I’ll explain...
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My best friend is gorgeous and extremely skinny, and I always find myself being jealous of her. Her boyfriend tells her all the time how “hot” she is, and his friends tell him how beautiful they think she is. They are the nicest guys and never say anything bad about me, but I just can’t stop myself from wishing I looked like her or something similar. Before I go to bed at night I read my Bible and ask God to give me comfort and self-assurance, and I feel 100% better...until I see her at school the next day, and then it all comes back again. How do I get over this jealousy?
First of all, thanks for your honesty, sis! You make total sense! And you are far from alone in the feelings you expressed. So many of us girls...
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I have a great Christian boyfriend now and things are great. I just don't know if I'm really over my last boyfriend, and I really do want to be over him considering how he broke my heart. I really like my new boyfriend and I don't want to be thinking about an ex when I'm with him. How do I just move on?
Being over someone is tricky business. It takes time to get past it all, and usually one of the last things that stands in the way is the question,...
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I'm struggling with the issue of being content outside of a relationship. I'm 17 years old and I've never had a boyfriend, or even had a male show interest in me. It's sometimes discouraging. I have a lot of good guy friends, but I have a natural desire to have more than that. I know God has a plan for me and that it's not time for me to date if He hasn't brought someone along, but it's hard to be patient. Any advice?
It's funny (in a God sort of way) that your question came at the same time I was writing my latest journal entry (February 20, 2007). If you haven't...
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I feel as if the harder I try to be better and live my life for God, the more things fall apart. I can’t really sleep, and when I do I have stressful dreams and I wake up with a sore jaw from grinding my teeth. I don’t know what to do. I'm praying more than ever, but I still feel alone.
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My boyfriend lives far away. We never see each other, but we video chat a lot. He has been feeling very depressed. He sleeps all day, won’t answer my invites, and is always mad at people. He said he didn’t want to get me in to his problems because he doesn’t want to hurt me. What should I do?
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I’ve had a crush on one of my guy friends for a while. For a while, I really thought he liked me back. He would always flirt with me and stuff. A friend convinced me to tell him that I like him, which I kind of regret now. He was really nice for a while, but then he started liking one of my best friends, and she liked him back, despite of me and my feelings. (I’m having a really hard time forgiving her for that!) Well, they broke up today. Should I let him know that I still like him? Or should I even like him?
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I have been with this guy for about three months. I have been hurt quite a lot during our relationship, and I’m just not sure if he is with me for the right reasons. When we used to talk, we would laugh and talk seriously, but now it’s all about sex. He tells me he loves me, but maybe he’s lying. He told me I’m too good for him… Is this a sign he wants it to be over?
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My mum and dad split up 3 days ago and I have cried nonstop ever since. My dad has moved out. I know my mum is having an affair. I confronted her and she’s still denying it. What should I do?
Aw, sis, I am so,
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