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My boyfriend of six months broke up with me about two months ago, and I just can't seem to get my life back together! I have to come to school every day and act like everything's fine, when really I just want to give up on life. I've been trying to pray about it and cling to God, but I still feel really empty, worthless, and pretty depressed. And he seems just fine, which hurts worse! What should I do?
Sis, you are so beautiful! God knows you with an intimacy no boy could ever understand. You are precious to your heavenly Father, and He delights in...
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Guys never seem to notice me, and I keep thinking that there is something wrong with me. All my friends keep talking about who likes them and blah-blah-blah. People say that I’m really pretty. Well, I would believe them if guys noticed me! People keep saying, “Your time will come,” or “I don’t know why guys don’t like you.” And they say nothing is wrong with me. Well then why haven’t I ever been asked out in my entire life? I mean, it’s not like I want guys following me around or anything, but I wonder why I always seem to be overlooked. I really want to get over this and enjoy my life, because I become depressed about this. I don’t feel worthy or even pretty anymore.
I think I better start by addressing a very common misconception—a lie that Satan would really, really like you to believe. (I’ll explain...
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My best friend is gorgeous and extremely skinny, and I always find myself being jealous of her. Her boyfriend tells her all the time how “hot” she is, and his friends tell him how beautiful they think she is. They are the nicest guys and never say anything bad about me, but I just can’t stop myself from wishing I looked like her or something similar. Before I go to bed at night I read my Bible and ask God to give me comfort and self-assurance, and I feel 100% better...until I see her at school the next day, and then it all comes back again. How do I get over this jealousy?
First of all, thanks for your honesty, sis! You make total sense! And you are far from alone in the feelings you expressed. So many of us girls...
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I have a great Christian boyfriend now and things are great. I just don't know if I'm really over my last boyfriend, and I really do want to be over him considering how he broke my heart. I really like my new boyfriend and I don't want to be thinking about an ex when I'm with him. How do I just move on?
Being over someone is tricky business. It takes time to get past it all, and usually one of the last things that stands in the way is the question,...
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I'm struggling with the issue of being content outside of a relationship. I'm 17 years old and I've never had a boyfriend, or even had a male show interest in me. It's sometimes discouraging. I have a lot of good guy friends, but I have a natural desire to have more than that. I know God has a plan for me and that it's not time for me to date if He hasn't brought someone along, but it's hard to be patient. Any advice?
It's funny (in a God sort of way) that your question came at the same time I was writing my latest journal entry (February 20, 2007). If you haven't...
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My dad and mum have being arguing a lot, and my dad moved out the house for a while. My mum said she doesn’t want him to move back in because she doesn’t like the way he treated me and my sister. Is it okay to blame my dad? Could they ever get back together? How do I get though this?
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Being in college, I am really focusing on my walk with the Lord and finding my purpose. My boyfriend of three years supports my faith and has come to church occasionally, but I really feel the need to marry a godly man. With this said, I made a really difficult decision to end things. It was a struggle between having such an easy, loving and comfortable relationship, and wanting to wait for the man God has made for me... Now, though, I'm stuck here thinking no man will ever love me as much as he did! I can't help but think this is going to be a long and lonely period of waiting around, while he moves on thinking I'm crazy and finding another girl! Have you ever experienced a situation like this? Have any encouraging words that I made the right decision?
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My friends at school are not Christians, and I feel completely alone. They are ALWAYS gossiping about each other and things that happened at the party on the weekend and stuff like that. I try my best not to gossip too, but then I'm completely left out. I try to act like a Christian, and I have invited some of them to youth group, but they would rather go to a party. What do I do? How am I supposed to act? It gets to me that I have no close Christian friends to share my secrets with and talk to. I feel really alone.
First of all, I have to tell
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I recently transferred schools and I’m just starting to really connect with the other kids in the school. It’s great! Well, there's this boy in the school who I really, REALLY like, and he really likes me too, and we both want to go out. Here’s the problem: One of my new friends used to go out with him and still really likes him, and pretty much hates any other girl that likes him. I really want to be friends with her, but this guys means sooooo much to me! Should I save the friendship or go out with this AMAZING guy who I REALLLLY like? HELP!!!
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Last year my best friend went away to college and we just grew apart. I still consider her my best friend, but I don't ever get to talk to her, see her, or hang out with her. It's hard. I've always been very shy and find it hard to make friends. Now I don't have any really good friends. There are a couple of girls I would call friends, but no one to really share things in my life with. I don't know what my problem is, but I just can't seem to find anyone I can really trust. Any advice?
Making friends is hard! And it's even harder when a good friend drifts out
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